Thursday, June 15, 2017

Temporarily closed

So it has been over a year since I posted anything here and honestly, I don't know if I will anytime soon. This place originally started as a place with wonderful fellow romance readers and reviewers. Then it sort of became a place for me to release pent up rants from my RL. Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately), life happens. During the span of this blog's life, I went from a young college grad trying to get a hold of the newest book I desperately wanted, to now running after a 50% mini-me that got a hold of my romance novel and tried to integrate it, i.e. eat my book (dear child also attempts to remove my phone, tablet and computer).

I really loved it here, and really miss this place. I have over 70 drafts of half finished posts and over 100 outlines in my head. I still have so much I want to share. Still, I feel I have changed too much the past few years to keep going here. I have been trying to do more self reflecting and analysis - trying to re-evaluate many aspects of my life and where I am going, especially in the current world and environment. As such, I decided that I need a bit of closure here. I am very sure I will be back in some form. Goodness knows I still go a little nuts over the books, dramas and novels I come across.

For now, I will be leaving my fun blog alone. At some point, I will either shut the whole thing down and start over or pick up where I left off.

Until then, please let your days be peaceful and nights filled with wonderful dreams.

Much love,

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

A ranting post...sort of

This have not been good lately, to say the least. I'm not sure if it's some universal shift of whatnot, but I know for sure I'm not important enough to even register as a blip to have so many eventful things happen. Yes, consciously I understand this was just the normal pattern and life and there was no omnipotent lesson just for me. Even I'm not that egotistical. BUT!!! It did not change the fact it has been extremely and unnecessarily stressful as of late.

Aside from the nonstopness of the horrible workplace situation, I had actually been job hunting for almost a year. Since July of last year, around the time I was sent to worker's comp to get medical aid. Of course, I mentioned the passing of my father-in-law early January of this year. My own father's medical scare and subsequent operation around Feb/March. THEN, by some complete delusion, I thought the world was done messing with me for a while that this last one hit. So, my parents were overseas on vacation when my mother complained she wasn't feeling too good. The good part was when they did an x-ray, they caught something early. Second good news, they were able to quickly and cleanly operate and remove the tumor. Now we're just waiting for the pathology report. The even more exciting part would be dear mother now stuck overseas on doctor's orders for at least 3 months. I, the obliviously lazy procrastinator that I am, had let my passport expire so I missed the pre and post-op. Now I am just waiting for it to hurry back so I can go.

At the same time, I used almost all of my personal and vacation time for my father-in-law and my dad so I have barely a week's time to go. On top of all of that, I'm still waiting for my vacation time to be approved. All the while looking for a job and having fun health issues which I'd been hiding from my parents. Joy.

Just mostly complaints. Overall, I'm just glad both my parents are doing ok even if they are going to be there for a while. And I can forgive them for now forcing me to take over most of their jobs here since I don't want them to worry. I am also getting calls for interviews, but I'm not holding my breath. I've had so many missed-almost-me situations that I've kind of became numb. Plus, at this point in my life, I honestly have that sad doomed feelings that any job I go to would be roughly the same. True leadership is hard to come by. I've technically never experienced working with a good leader. Not so far and I've had a lot of different bosses, managers, supervisors, leaders, blah blah blah.

I would like to get back into watching my fun shows and movies, or at the very least pick up a few nice books, but nada at the moment. Tis life.

Hey, at least I'm alive...and sort of healthy. Sort of. I'll take it for now.

Until next time, please all stay healthy.


Monday, March 16, 2015

Finally, a minor update

I had a great post all written up explaining in great fun details of why I'd been away from this blog, but the darn thing got eaten up when I tried to post pictures via phone.

Sorry everyone, you get the short boring explanation.

My health is bad due to some pretty severe problems at work. Currently working hard to look for another place. Wish me luck!

My parents health were also going through some roller coasters (a few emergency department runs, operations, medications, etc...), so I'd been trying to help out with that while hiding my health issues.

The biggest reason was my father in law passed away a while ago. My husband is doing much better now, but it had been very tough for the past year. I'll save it all the gruesome extensive details for another post, but my father in law had been sick for a while. He passed away right after the new year and we went into very traditional mourning. The Chinese Buddhist mourning rituals were actually very interesting and I would like to write a post about it if I have the time in the future. I learned a lot and the situation helped open the conversation for myself and my family.

All in all, I'm alive and still fairly healthy and functional so I will cut down on the complaining.

I do need to read more. Haven't read anything, or watched much in a while. I did start re-learning my mandarin due to the prayers and I was amazed and the exponential growth of my reading skills... I can actually read a few Chinese short stories without help. :)

In the meantime, I will try to get back into the blogging/reviewing mood. It's just been hard, so please hang in there with me.

Also, please please take care of your health. Physical, mental and emotional.


A pics of my adorable nephew saying laters ;P

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Sick 2.0

Sorry everyone, I got sick a second time. Yes, a second time...

Don't have much of a voice...

Still working and job hunting though and will probably be doing that for a while. 

Been preparing for Nanowrimo soon. :)

Stay warm and healthy everyone! 

Thursday, September 18, 2014


Sorry for the lack of posts lately, but real life is getting the better of me.

First the old rabbit at home got sick.
Then I got sick.

It's kind of dragging out.

Mostly has to do with the changing weather. It has been soooooooo hot. The humid kind of hot. Most places have the A.C. on high, which kind of shocks the body with this suddenly hot and cold.

Sleep has been hard to come by as well since I don't like running the AC all night, but within a few hours the humid heat engulfs you and you just wake up with a sheen of sweat. Several times a night. Not good.

Then, there was the increase of rejections I have been getting probably made me a little too sad and I let my immune system weaken. It's ok, I shall increase my water and snack food intake.

Sadly, this bout of heat and illness put a dent in my reviewing. I had been catching up on the most awesome asian internet novels Chinese audio books, tv shows and books, but have lacked the mental facilities to write them all out. There has been a show that has enraptured me was so interesting I am really considering episode summaries, but at 46 episodes, I am might be too lazy for. Lol. We shall see.

Hopefully, this cough will go away soon and that fall and winter bring plenty of good rain.

Maybe I will stop being such a lazy piggy be more motivated and just write soon. >_>

In the meantime, Everyone please take good care of your health!!!

Monday, August 25, 2014

甜蜜殺機 Sweet Alibis (2014)

甜蜜殺機 Sweet Alibis (2014)

I finally saw it! Oh my gosh, I had been waiting for this movie for such a long time and I have to say, it did not disappoint at all.

Yes, cliches were all over the place, but I could care less as my laughter and sniffling from the movie overshadowed the problems.

The movie was very cute and fast moving. I actually had to watch it twice to catch some of the additional subtle parts and jokes (a lot of in-jokes that I surprisingly got, hahaha).

Alec Su played Wang Chih-Yi, a very talented detective that also exceedingly talented at avoiding any dangerous cases. He's a complete slacker even if he's a perfect marksman. It was revealed early on that Chih-Yi avoided danger because he has lost his whole family (parents, brother, sister-in-law) early on and has been raising his nephew. He has been paired with Gao Yi-Ping, played by Ariel Lin, a rookie that was overly enthusiastic to prove herself, for example, by constantly pulling out her gun in very single situation possible. An deliberately odd pairing thrown together because Yi-Ping was the daughter of the Police Chief and Dad wants to make sure his daughter will be safe. They also have a bet going on about Yi-Ping's ability to be a cop. So Dad was definitely cheating. Hehe.

Even as the two get thrown the easiest of easy cases, it all ended up being this interconnected web of murder that dealt with the local drug trade. For a hilarious comedy, the movie actually injected a lot of depths and background to the array of cast. Almost every character had some background as well as motives for their actions. You end up sympathizing with quite a lot of the characters. I can't really write anything about the whole storyline without giving the plot away given how everything was really connected and very well portrayed. Instead, I'll have the spoiler part after the trailer.

I would definitely recommend people to watch this.

Plus, is had Alec Su in it. Lol. Yes, I was a childhood fan. I also have enjoyed a lot Ariel Lin shows and the fact the movie had both of them was a no brainer for me. And the fact it's a comedy. I love comedies.

Okay, obvious spoiler time...

Are you sure you want spoilers?

Okay, okay, the more spoilerish review:

This was a very good story despite a few cliche moments and a lot of suspension of disbelief at how much coincidence had to be involved.

A drug deal gone wrong had a few people wounded. To keep Yi-Ping off the case, she and Chih-Yi were sent on a case of doggy death. It ended up being not as simple as they thought and linked back to the drug deal. From there, murders abound. Almost half the secondary characters died. For such a happy show, there were certainly a lot of deaths. At the same time, the writers/directors were amazingly good at making you care about the deaths. Almost in a way where you felt guilty for not caring about each murder when it happened. The filming was amazingly good. The colors and placement - well, maybe a little too much flashback, but it was a good technique to kind of show you what really happened.

At the end, I was not too surprised at how the story ended. It was still fun to watch though.

Almost every single character was connected by something or another, which also made the movie more fun to watch. No wasted moment. I liked how everyone had a drive and every character had their own motives and lives. Even the most standard paper cut-out character had something or another going on.

Chih-Yi was a very talented person, but at the loss of family, decided to always err on the safe side. He also desperately wants to get married and goes through a matchmaker. He might be a slacker, but at the same time, he was respected by his teammates. He's also the only one that knew how to work with Yi-Ping, to the amazement of his teammates. He had his ups and downs and when he found out about his nephew's involvement, Chih-Yi reacted pretty realistically.

Yi-Ping Gao was a very privileged young woman and she knew it, ergo, it made her try even harder to prove herself and her own abilities. At the same time, it made sense that she still needed to be rescued by both her Dad and Chih-Yi because the story did want to illustrate how she had glamorized the lifestyle. It definitely did not keep her down though. :) I liked how she was still the more dominant one in the relationship.

The drug dealer/movie star - this actor was hilarious at portraying both. One of the lighter moments in the show.

It was rather obvious from the start that the nephew was involved. Even though I still felt the nephew was an idiot, he was written/portrayed with understanding. His lack of family also made him easily manipulated by his teacher/father figure.

The teacher had a minor channeling of Walter White. Lol, very minor though. Again, the writers were great in showing how he went into drug making to get money for cancer treatment for his wife. Even though he ended up causing almost all the deaths in the movie (including the poor doggy), his death was incredibly sad when you saw how much he and his wife loved each other.

Chih-Yi's matchmaker I mentioned earlier? Well, the matchmaker ended up being the side of life, running a drug ring. The guy is hilarious, but also deeply loving at the same time. The fact he was moved by the teacher's plight was a good example of how there was more depth to him than we were initially led to believe. His death was at first hilarious, then went rather sad when you realized how much he and his sidekick loved each other.

I would not say there was an incredible amount of character growth, but just enough to make it realistic and fun. The story/movie actually stayed very grounded. The plot was interesting with a bunch of twists, subtle hints everywhere. It was equally ridiculously funny at times, even at the end. Again, all the coincidences actually made it fun to watch and follow.

The romance was cute and subtle enough without it overtaking the entire plot. At the same time, it was believable enough that I could see sequels...or a tv series. Hey! That's a great idea! I would totally watch a TV show with Alec Su and Ariel Lin as partners solving crimes. Someone get on it!

If I did have a complaint, it would still be the lack of female characters. Even though there were quite a few and they all had their own personalities, most were still plot devices and background characters.

I will definitely be looking for a copy of this for keeps and for enjoyment in the future.

If you have an hour or two, go look it up and enjoy. Also, Alec Su. ;) Ok ok, done joking. Sort of. :P

Saturday, August 2, 2014

Updates of Ms. Alys

Hey hey dear readers, my apologies for a lack of posts the past few months. Real life has not been too pleasant and a few key events had taken up most of my free time. Partially due to be exhaustion, my thinking processes had been fried. I guess the correct term is burnt out.

Still, I had been thinking about my tiny little blogging world and now that I finally forcibly took some time off from work, I figured, write now or I am going to forget all over again.

(Rusty napping during the summer)
To catch up:

1) I am currently trying to make a career move after some very foul and sour events had occurred at my current place of work. I accept full responsibility for losing my cool and broke through my professional demeanor twice in my entire career. For that, I really do feel bad. Yet, that does not chance the absolutely pitiful situation at my work. I am not sorry I told them what was wrong, because they are in the wrong. Think something similar to The Office, British version and with bosses with no sincerity and compassion, loyalty or leadership skills. When I say it has been bad, I really mean it. This place has now gone on par with one job that, to this day, I hate and refuse to buy anything from.

Thus, job change.

(Me getting pretty)

2) So, while I have been interviewing, I came across a every "interesting" situation. A recent place I interviewed at was transparently obvious in that they did not want me and spent most of the time lecturing me about having a real career choice. At least the individual was honest about the job and the fact said person did not like the fact I changed jobs 3x in the last 6 years. In my defense, that first job was low end entry level thus a year there was the best we could I make out of the situation. I needed experience, but gone are the days where people stay at jobs for 10-20 years. Really.

As much as I would like to have a job where I start and retire from, the companies these days do not even attempt to keep their employees. I really don't want to go into a whole social-political-economical debate here. There's no point. We all have our ideas and the chances of people changing their minds is next to nil.

I used to try really hard to see things from other people's perspectives because I was taught that way. We all have good points and if we disagree, it helps to hear the other side. The problem was that this courtesy has never, maybe one person or two, been reciprocated. Not they need to agree with me, but I am tired of always being seen as the problem because I don't agree with them. Life sucks. Deal with it.
 (Exhaustion after weird interviews)

Back to the interview. So, out of all the interviews, why this one stuck out in my mind was this. I received the most bizarre comment that the interviewer was not being worried I would take their job. I mean, what?! Why would I take your job? We don't even do the same things. Plus, that right away should be a sign I wasn't going to get hired. Luckily, I didn't really want that job after hearing how it's high workload, no room for rising up, and nothing new for me to work on. Just repetition.

Either way, I am thankful for the experience interviewing again and for the partial honesty. I just wished it had been any other day than that day. Since it took three hours out of my time.

I had a bunch of other stuff to do...

Which was the day before the Book Smuggler publishing submissions!!!! GAHHH!

3) Yes, you heard right. I submitted my short story to The Book Smugglers. Honestly, I am being absolutely honest and not fishing for any compliments at all, but I know I won't get published by them for this story. I don't need anyone saying "oh, you'll never know" or "wait until you hear back." No, thank you dear. I already know it will not be accepted. I know because I had not written a full length story in at least 5 years. I barely wrote at all. My skills, even as I was editing, revealed itself have completely deteriorated and morphed into this juvenile and weak scrawl. I almost quit. I think I even stopped writing for a few weeks/days and didn't even want to look at it anymore.

BUT. I didn't. I still went back to it and I wrote. Instead, I gave myself a new goal: to finish my short story, then submit it to The Book Smugglers. And I succeeded both. :) To me, that's all that mattered. I succeeded!

So I made another decision/goal. Once I get the confirmation that the story has not been accepted, I possibly post it here. If not the whole thing (it is 24+ pages), I want to at least over of the process of writing this and the summaries and stories. :)

In the meantime, I have at least been able to catch up on a little more reading. I just would need some more time to write it out. Hopefully, I can get to writing the new reviews for the movies and books soon. The TV series will have to take longer. Much longer. TV show reviews are surprisingly hard to me to write. -_-

So stay tuned!